Stress arises from a comparison between the demand on a person and their coping abilities. An imbalance in this coping mechanism, when coping is important, gives rise to the experience of stress, and to the stress response. Coping is both psychological – involving thinking and behavioural strategies, and physiological' involving chemical changes in the body. If normal coping is ineffective, stress is prolonged and abnormal responses may occur. The occurrence of these, and prolonged exposure to stress, may give rise to ill-health, and terminal disease. (Cox and McKay.1991)
Eustress (Hans Selye) Is the stress of achievement or overcoming a challenge. The reaction of the body is the same but we put a different meaning on it ie: exhilaration, triumph, or winning.
The inability to cope with the demands being made upon us - real or imagined, this causes feelings of lack of control of situations and of oneself, and general unease. Distress is the stress of losing, insecurity, inadequacy, helplessness, despair, despondency and worry.
Too little stimulation leads to boredom and apathy whereas too much stimulation can go from exciting to a feeling of being overwhelmed and worse.
When arousal or stimulation is handled effectively it provides the motivation to overcome obstacles to achieve goals. When the arousal gets out of control we become ill or experience poor performance. Everyone’s optimum level is different. When arousal gets out of control the body gives us warning signs to calm down. Unfortunately, sometimes we ignore these signals or treat them inappropriately or with activities that do not help ie: by using drugs, alcohol to calm down or prescribed medicines to alleviate symptoms, without dealing with the problem. So that when you stop the medication the symptoms return because you have not adopted a better coping strategy for dealing with it.
Its not the specific major changes that affect our stress levels but the continual low grade demands like traffic and symbolic or imagined threats which exert a continual nagging anxiety.
Increased sensitivity to criticism
Signs of tension such as nail biting
Difficulty getting to sleep – early morning wakening
Increased use of alcohol / cigarettes
Loss of concentration
It is vitally important to take early action to relieve stress symptoms before they affect your physical / mental well-being. You could do this by giving yourself some space – a day or two off from work / domestic chores and pamper yourself instead, recharge your batteries, you may find you are more productive after a short rest period.
The fight / flight response is a normal reaction designed to protect ourselves from life threatening situations. In other non - life threatening situations it is inappropriate ie: we may respond as though we were going into battle when in actual fact we are just sitting in a chair. Situations such as sitting in traffic jams, a row with someone, the children are playing up etc. Furthermore, our highly developed forebrain can dwell on past events or imagine future ones and maintain the circulation of stress bio-chemicals. Therefore instead of the response being used for physical exertion and to adapt in the short term the effects become long term.
Cardio vascular: increased blood pressure, heart attacks, strokes
Stomach ulcers, ulcerative colitis, constipation, diarrhoea
Light headedness, fainting – due to hyperventilation – asthma
Allergic skin reactions
Headache, backache, neck and shoulders – due to tension
Increased susceptibility to infections
Decreased fertility, menstrual disorders
Anxiety, panic attacks and phobias
Feeling well, relaxed manner, physical recreation is pleasurable, can take time to relax with no guilt. Burdens which could cause unhappiness in others are dealt with calmly and effectively. Rapid and flexible thought, originality and vigour are present.
Is when you do not deny fatigue, you take steps to recover, and say No to further requests. Others are not anxious about your fatigue.
You may insist you are healthy but others say different. You see no need for relaxation or to increase fitness. Excessive pressures, which disrupt your health, are accepted as inevitable because exhaustion decreases the ability to distinguish the essential from the unessential. Resulting in: -
Bad temper, grumbling, longer hours worked with less achieved
Sleep becomes inadequate
Mannerisms develop which disrupt the peace of mind of others
The mind becomes set against changes, lose the ability to be flexible
Increased eating, drinking, smoking, drug use………and some people find they can’t eat much at all
Therefore Optimum Stress = either turning up stimulation if an individual is under aroused- bored etc. Or turning down arousal when over stressed.
Ability to cope with stress alters with a number of positive factors ie: education and training in both social skills and industrial skills, and with a number of negative factors ie: ageing, drug effects, illness and injury. For instance in ageing, if the demands of a job are not modified as a worker ages and is less able to cope then their experience of stress will increase. The worker could have their workload decreased or they could have periodic retraining.
It helps dramatically if you have supportive relationships ie: from parents, friends, colleagues or helping organizations.